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Social Networking 101

September 01, 2008

Social networking is the latest tool that has become a daily part of many internet user’s lives. With the widespread craze of networking sites for adults like MySpace and Facebook, it’s only natural for kids to want to get in on the action, too.

But remember that while the Internet can provide learning and entertainment opportunities, it also can be a dangerous place if children using the Web are not monitored and taught safety skills. Not every online community has adequate safety restraints, so look for sites that require a parent’s permission to register.

There are also sites that are designed just for kids like new planetvtech.com, where kids can interact, play and learn in a safe, contained site with no Web browser. Kids can even receive a voucher for a free one-year membership to this “Mom Approved” site in select VTech learning products.

Once parents and kids have discussed online safety guidelines, and which sites mom and dad give their official “thumbs up” to, the entire family can join in on social networking fun.

To help your family navigate social networking sites safely, follow these guidelines:


  • Social Safeguards – Check sites that interest your kids before they get online, as some of the most popular social networking sites are meant for a more mature audience, not children. Kid-friendly Web sites often limit who can enter, and they regulate chatting to pre-set phrases like “Hi, how are you?” rather than allowing free text.
  • Create an Avatar – Avatars are a fun way for kids (and yourself!) to have an online identity. On planetvtech.com, you can pick a name, and often the appearance, of your avatar. This is also a way for children to keep their autonomy online – plus, they are lots of fun! Encourage creativity with your child by coming up with an imaginative online name and look.
  • Beware of Cyber Bullies – “Cyber bullies” have been known to use a child’s log in to tap into online identities. Protect your child’s online identity by making sure they do not give their password or personal information to anyone. The best way to prevent this from happening is for them to keep their password private, even from best friends, and to always logout when playtime is over.
  • Sign the Pledge – McGruff.org, a Web site featuring McGruff the Crime Dog, teaches parents and their kids tips on personal safety – even online. Print off the online safety pledge (http://mcgruff.org/files/InternetSafetyPledge.pdf ) and read it with your child. After, you both can sign it and place it near the computer as a reminder!

    • Online communities for kids:


    Safety sites:


  • McGruff
  • Microsoft
  • Net Nanny